Make a Good Decision

 

decision.jpgAll people in this world had to make decisions. Heavy or light, it is still a decision, and it is important. Believe me or not, one change from your decisions in your past could not put you to where you are now, what you’re reading, and everything.

Decisions include the time you wake up, the way you talk, the way you treat others, and maybe a little of the clothes you choose.

But heavy decisions is a different one. And you must know yourself which is which. But most people don’t mind these decisions. They make them with their minds absent and later on, they tell themselves they shouldn’t have done that. So how do we avoid these reckless decision making?

Know your emotional state

If you think that your mood is not in the right place, you won’t be able to think properly. And if so happens, don’t make decisions yet. It is always better for the decision to wait than making a wrong one.

Weigh the pros and cons

If you are unfamiliar with pros and cons, here it is: Pros are the good benefits when you make one decision. And Cons are the opposite. So if you are making a decision, jot down the pros and cons and weigh them. And the ones with better results are the ones that must be followed.

Know if it is worth it

Many people make a decision and after it is done, they tell themselves that they shouldn’t have done it. Making this tip includes the pros and cons.


The list i’ve done is not a step by step process, these are just tips that I use.

Mountains

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Higher than the sky,

Steeper than the stairs,

In those spaces I see,

Large clumps of rocks and soil,

Adding a beauty to my sight,

But minimizing the view I see,

Climb this mountain up and see,

The world that is waiting up you.

Never be scared to stand out and see ,

The outside world that has a ,

Lot more to teach.

Sorry

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I’m sorry.

You know, this is a hard word to say,

But it actually is a very strong word,

It is a word of forgiveness,

A word of understanding.

Now, I am going to tell this to you,

I’m sorry for my misbehavior,

I’m sorry for sometimes I get tempted.

I’m sorry because I lied,

I’m sorry because I did a bad thing.

I’m sorry I hurt you,

I’m sorry I got you disappointed.

I’m sorry if I hid,

I’m sorry if I said those words.

And I’m sorry if I did such a thing.

I won’t do it again.

I Love You

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Warmer than the Sun,

Colder than the Boomerang nebula,

Narrower than the strand of my hair,

Blacker than the vantablack.

That is how my love

Is exaggerated for you,

But just to remind you that this is not only

For someone like couples

But also for you, my

Dear family,

Especially for my parents and siblings.

I love you very much.

 

Fragile

 

A group of flowers is like a lady,

Delicate as a small baby.

Nurture it with love and care,

To see a fabulous garden with one glare

A young lady needs love and care

Just like how flowers need water

So that they will grow without hatred,

For the world to befriend them.

A young lady also needs mistakes and lessons,

Just like how we remove dead plants

To new beautiful one.

If one lady got into deep trouble,

Other ladies go into that trouble as well.

But it actually differs depending

On what kind of flower one is.

So if you are a lady,

Remember this thoroughly.

If you don’t change for the good,

Don’t wait until the flower dries.

Until it is alive, use the best of your time,

Not to avoid the bad ones, but to go to the good ones.

So that when you grow up, you will be nice and

Beautiful just like flowers that were provided

With enough needs.

 

 

A Dog’s Message

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Dear Human Family,

Greetings to you! This letter is specially made for you. I just wanted to thank you very much for being my true and only family when my mother wasn’t able to take care of me. Thank you very much for providing my needs like my food and shelter.

You have taken me to those nefarious baths and you took me to those vets that I am scared of. But nonetheless, you still took me to your very soft bed, took me to the park for a walk, and took me beside you during meals.

When I was young, I bit and scratched you a lot. And you seem not to like it. If you think that the reason was just I was so stubborn, you are correct, but I am really sorry.

If you think that I cannot do tricks now, if you think that I am adamant to not do the potty training, or if you think that I am so stubborn, you are correct. But is not too late for you to train me. You can start training me from the basic commands like sit, lie down, and roll over. For those training, all you have to have is, of course, food! But don’t forget love and commitment. If it is hard, just be patient, okay?

However, I still love you very much (actually that is the reason you got those ‘‘love’’ wounds from me). And I thank you for being my family when my family has not the ability to take care of me.

 Love,

Dogs

 

Poem of Time

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I am your friend,

But also your enemy.

I am consistent,

But differ on how you perceive me

I am invisible,

But people can see me through some item,

That has three feet running around some shapes.

Sometimes you catch me,

But sometimes you wait for me.

I shall be with you always

And never leave you even if you die.

I track your age, and also your changes.

I track everything that passes your life.

I am at your side since your first second

In your mother’s tummy.

You shall never ever forget me and dump me

‘Cause I will be your best friend if you nourish me

But will be your worst enemy if you waste me.

I shall also never forget you

And always keep you in the history of mine.

Sometimes you get mad at me

‘Cause I cannot return you to where you were

And I also can’t take you to where you’ll be,

But pardon me, ’cause that is just who I am.

 

 

 

 

 

Soon or Now?

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We all have a good time, right? But most of us don’t use it properly at the right time. We do things, not in the proper time. Try to recall the day and identify to yourself if you had done something that wasn’t from your schedule, something that you didn’t do at the right time, or something that you did too early because it feels much better doing that than doing the more important ones. Let’s be honest, we often procrastinate. We do it because it feels much better doing things easier and faster so we can tell ourselves to break. If you are a procrastinator, help yourself! There will we no one to do it for you but you. Follow these tips on how to be not a procrastinator.

Create Segments

It is very easy to create segments and one material that will help you do this is a notebook. And there are also characteristics that are required to have to be able to do so. You need to be willful, committed, and responsible.

When creating segments, what I mean is divide your tasks with your time. For example, if you are going to eat a house, divide them. From the roof, walls, furniture, floors, tiles, and etc. Same with doing tonnes of household chores. Separate them with your time.

Mind the Consequences

Everybody faces their own consequences of their own actions. So come to think of it, if we procrastinate, what could be the consequences? Will it be good? or bad? Of course, not! Procrastinators don’t deserve good outcomes.

Example:

You have to do hundred-page paperwork in 1 month. You can say that you have a lot of time and can do it pretty well. But you forgot to consider the other things you have to do. So you just left with the time running while you, having your good time. What could be the consequences? It’s simple. You will soon run out of time or catch the time as fast as possible and you won’t be able to do your work with ease and properly.

Avoid Distractions

If you should not be reading in WordPress right now, stop after this. The actual problem of procrastinators are distractions. Without distractions, you could not be a procrastinator. They do things the things that they shouldn’t be doing at the time. Avoiding distractions is not as simple as you think, but when you get over it, it would be a lot of pleasure. Your life would not be the same again.

Use Journals

Never ever be shy to use journals. If you think it’s only for children, change your mind. I’ve been using a lot of journals lately and it helps me a lot. There, I write my schedule, the things that have happened, and the things that I have to do. Never worry about the design, the size, the brand, your pen, what’s important is that you are able to write the things you want to write.

Be Patient

If you think that you’ve been doing these things and it seems to have no progress, be patient, patience is a virtue. Never give up and be willful. If you always forget and can’t help doing the things you like, remember that people don’t change overnight. Or maybe, ask help from someone older. But remember that you can always discipline yourself.

What to do with mistakes

Just this week, I thought, what would life be like without negative experiences like problems? Mistakes there is included. What would life be without mistakes? Admit it, you’ve done a lot of mistakes through your entire life. Like, lots of them.

Maybe you thought that your mistakes turn you so down and you can’t do anything about it now. Maybe you thought you’re just an idiot because you did such mistake. But believe me, there is one way in many ways you can use that mistake in a positive way. In the way that you will thank yourself for doing such a thing.

Now, come to think of it, if so happens that you didn’t do your mistake, would you be you? Isn’t that your mistakes are the reason because you now know what is right and wrong?

There is a simple way to change your mind about those negative feelings. Just use it as your rocket fuel. Use it to be able to improve in the future. Just like rocket fuel, use it to get up, to get out of the things that pull you down (gravity pull).

I will give you an example of a girl who used her mistakes as rocket fuel.

She is a fourteen-year-old girl that always get the lowest score in English spellings. Instead of feeling bad for her low scores, she used it as rocket fuel and read more books. She studied more vocabularies. And she got higher grades in spellings. And instead of feeling bad for her mistake, she instead used it to improve.

 

The Choice

Two free paths are in front of you,
But then you suddenly flew.
You didn’t know only what to do,
For the world for you is anew.

Teenagers like you and I are free
To choose what our choices will be
But our decisions depend on what we see
Depending on what we want to be

The right path must be chosen carefully
And we have all the time to choose sparingly
‘Cause once chosen, we’ll be there permanently
But believe me, we’ll be there easily

There are only a few steps to follow
And we must do it nice and slow
For someday we will always glow
And our brains contained, not hollow

Just follow your parents and you’ll be there
Your choice you chose to be where
But we must always be aware
And commit to our choice with love and care